being an adventist is a great blessing because God gave us truth. the ability to discern the right things and the wrong .with this truth jcomnes responsibility also. it means that sometimes you have to make difficult decisions. this is where christ comes in. He will take you through . there is a great blessing in being united with an adventist. it protects you from a lot of problems if you are both God fearing . nowin every relationship there will be problems but because you both gave your lives to christ it means if you are open enough all disputes will be solved in christ . and that makes all the difference . pray to the lord about it and HE WILL GIVE YOU A WAY A PRACTICAL WAY